This guy did an email experiment to find out how women are treated differently to men. The results were fascinating
A guy called Martin Schneider did an email experiment to find out how differently women are treated to men after one of his staff kept getting a shitty time from a client.
Stick with this all the way through to the end because it’s worth it. A tale of gender and discrimination in 24 parts.
1.
So here’s a little story of the time @nickyknacks taught me how impossible it is for professional women to get the respect they deserve:
— Martin R. Schneider (@SchneidRemarks) March 9, 2017
2.
Nicole and I worked for a small employment service firm and one complaint always came from our boss: She took too long to work with clients.
— Martin R. Schneider (@SchneidRemarks) March 9, 2017
3.
(This boss was an efficiency-fetishizing gig economy-loving douchebag but that’s another story.)
— Martin R. Schneider (@SchneidRemarks) March 9, 2017
4.
As her supervisor, I considered this a minor nuisance at best. I figured the reason I got things done faster was from having more experience
— Martin R. Schneider (@SchneidRemarks) March 9, 2017
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But I got stuck monitoring her time and nagging her on the boss’ behalf. We both hated it and she tried so hard to speed up with good work.
— Martin R. Schneider (@SchneidRemarks) March 9, 2017
6.
So one day I’m emailing a client back-and-forth about his resume and he is just being IMPOSSIBLE. Rude, dismissive, ignoring my questions.
— Martin R. Schneider (@SchneidRemarks) March 9, 2017
7.
Telling me his methods were the industry standards (they weren’t) and I couldn’t understand the terms he used (I could).
— Martin R. Schneider (@SchneidRemarks) March 9, 2017
8.
He was entertainment industry too. An industry I know pretty well.
— Martin R. Schneider (@SchneidRemarks) March 9, 2017
9.
Anyway I was getting sick of his shit when I noticed something.
Thanks to our shared inbox, I’d been signing all communications as “Nicole”— Martin R. Schneider (@SchneidRemarks) March 9, 2017
10.
It was Nicole he was being rude to, not me. So out of curiosity I said “Hey this is Martin, I’m taking over this project for Nicole.”
— Martin R. Schneider (@SchneidRemarks) March 9, 2017
11.
IMMEDIATE IMPROVEMENT. Positive reception, thanking me for suggestions, responds promptly, saying “great questions!” Became a model client.
— Martin R. Schneider (@SchneidRemarks) March 9, 2017
12.
Note: My technique and advice never changed. The only difference was that I had a man’s name now.
— Martin R. Schneider (@SchneidRemarks) March 9, 2017