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Married people have been sharing the one piece of advice they’d give people before they get hitched – 23 top prenup tips

12.

‘Be respectful to one another. No matter how mad, frustrated, annoyed…whatever…just keep it civil. Don’t call names, don’t take cheap shots, don’t insult one another. Communication is so important.’
little_loup

13.

‘You need to live with each other first. And you need to live with each other long enough to show them how much of a filthy bastard you are. Everybody is a filthy bastard somewhere. You have to consider being comfortable with someone else’s filth. And if you’re not, then you’re going to have to be comfortable cleaning up after that person.’
Rare-Ad-6429

14.

‘See what they’re like angry. See if they’re rude to you when traffic sucks and you just happen to be in the car with them. If you have a terrible day together, do they take it out on you?’
chacun-des-pas

15.

‘It things are bad, getting married will NOT make them better. Don’t get married and expect it to fix any of your relationship problems. On fact, it can often make them worse.’
w0mbatina

16.

‘It’s not a fairy tale of happily ever after.’
vivchen

17.

‘Just shut up sometimes. It’s not worth saying and once you calm down you’ll regret it.’
Not_so_ghetto

18.

‘Don’t marry anyone called Donald Trump, if may end badly.’
cheftonine

19.

‘Someone once told me ‘If your spouse is your best friend, you’re doing it right. If they’re your only friend, you might be doing it wrong’. I think they meant that one person can’t possibly be everything to you, even on their best day. And it might be unfair or setting them up for failure to even ask that of them. Food for thought!’
ItsNotMeItsMew

20.

‘Hire a cleaner. It will save 95% of arguments. until you have kids.’
arctictony

21.

‘Relationships are work. They do not just happen. They require care. You would not buy a car and never service it. Never put gas or oil in it. Relationships take work too.’
No-Fishing5325

22.

‘Clean shit up without being asked to, and learn to cook.’
conipto

23.

‘Take them as you find them. Never marry someone thinking they will change.’
Maleficent_Scale_296

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