‘What’s one thing men do that they think is attractive, but actually isn’t?’ – 25 instant libido killers

Are you a man who is finding it difficult to keep a partner? It might just be because you are sabotaging yourself without even realising it.

We say this after Reddit user RedemptionKingu asked the following question:

‘Women of Reddit: What’s one thing men do that they think is attractive, but actually isn’t?’

And the answers might help you figure out why you’re so tragically inept when it comes to dating.

1.

‘Brag about how successful they are with women. It always comes across as desperate and not really believable.’
–winkstav

2.

‘There’s such a thing as too confident. Also don’t order my meal for me.’
–signalfaradayfromme

3.

‘This one guy bragged to me that he can go on for 10 hours… I’m like no thanks bruv, I like my sleep.’
–champoradomami

4.

‘Trying to start fist fights with other guys for dumb reasons.’
–ExoticPersimmon2

5.

‘When they aspire to be an ‘alpha male’.’
–crazycatlady331

6.

‘Revving their engines. Immediately turns me into the Sahara.’
–MulderItsMe99

7.

‘Oversized pickups or extreme lift kits. Nothing says I’m insecure like taking up four parking spaces DAVE!’
–Diary_of_Zero

8.

‘On Tinder I see a bunch of guys list ‘whisky’ as their only interest. Not even a sentence, just the single word. I think they think it makes them look sophisticated, but it just makes them look insufferable.’
–houndsoflu

9.

‘Showing me pictures of the hot women they’ve dated.’
–Batticon

10.

‘Sleeping with as many women as they possibly can while demanding his future wife be a virgin.’
–halimusicbish

11.

‘Speaking to me in an unbroken monologue full of humblebrags, or just open bragging (usually exaggerating) about their lives and accomplishments.’
–Twiirl_Petal

12.

‘I’m really turned off by the guys who think of themselves as having ‘elite’ taste in anything to the point where they like to state all of their opinions as if they’re objective facts, especially when these opinions always align with what is already critically acclaimed and are not just their own unique tastes.’
–friendswithyourdog